From the moment we are born we are taught that the right way to get a girl is to be the nice guy. Bring her flowers, pay for her dinner and even buy her expensive gifts. This used to be how I thought because that's what everybody told me.

Well I am here to tell you that if you are looking to get some action, this is totally the wrong way to approach it. Women know that if you that if they have you buying them gifts then they can do whatever they want.

See women were taught the same thing we were. They think they have the upper hand at this point because they are the ladies and we should be buying them stuff. But if you ever notice the nice guys doing all this stuff are not the ones getting some action.

I am here to tell you that they fastest way to get a girl to go home with you is to show them that you don't care about them. See women love a challenge. Now whether or not they would admit it they still do like the idea of something exciting. I want to give you a couple of pointers that are going to start helping your game tonight.

1. When you are talking to a girl make sure that you are controlling the conversation. Its not like we as guys really care what happened in their day.

2. Make her know that she is lucky to be talking to you. We are the "catch" and we need to make sure they know that.

3. If she goes to talk to another guy. Let her, don't get jealous. That is a sign of weakness and women feed on that. You want her to know that you are the one that she should be worried about.

All it takes is just a little change in your mindset and tonight you could be getting chicks by being the Alpha Male.

Hey guys...are you getting tired of watching the jerk get the girl? Are you spending your night at home playing video games because you are afraid to go out and talk to chicks? How good would it feel if you were able to change that and start getting ladies tonight?

I use to be just like you guys. I would stay at home because every time I went out I could not believe the kind of guys that girls would go home with. I would do everything I could to be nice to them. Buy them a drink, complement them and not try to pressure them into going home with me. You know what? I never succeeded in scoring with them. They didn't want the nice guy. They wanted the guy that is going to be a challenge to them. Looking back at it now is kind of funny. Once you realize what women really want it is not that difficult to be able to hook with them.

The first thing is to look for are the signs. One indicator that you are not going to score is if she leaves in the middle of a conversation to talk to someone else. You need make sure that her attention is on you. The other thing to look out for is if she is eyeing other guys as you guys are talking. It means that she is looking for something else and that you are just there to pass the time. If she is doing that then you need to start looking for another girl if you are trying to hook up.

Be aware of what's going on when you are out at the club otherwise when you think you have that girl she will turn around and leave with another dude. Not only will you feel like chump but you are going to be going home alone.

Guys, are you tired of spending every weekend home alone by yourself? Are you tired of waiting for something to happen on the weekend because you don't know what to do? I used to be just like you guys. I would spend the whole weekend by myself because I did not have the courage to go up to a woman and talk to her. Getting chicks is a lot easier than you think.

If you go out to a bar and you notice that the guys that are getting the girls are the alpha males, then it is time to become one of them. You see, girls want one thing out of the guy. They want the same thing we do. They just won't admit to it. It is your job to lead them where they want to go. They don't want to be called a slut. But, they want you to be the man in charge. You have to be the one to take them home.

Why do you think that women like jerks? Do you think it is because they like being treated poorly? No. They like the jerk because the jerk has the qualities of an alpha male. The jerk has self confidence built in. The jerk knows how to be the confident alpha male in any situation. Now I'm not saying be a jerk. What I am saying is to take the confidence that a jerk has built into him naturally and use that to your advantage.

You can be the alpha male the women desire. You can be the guy that is filled with confidence. Even if you don't have the confidence right now, it is so easy to get. But you have to be willing to make a change. You have to decide whether you're going to be the beta male that doesn't take any girls home, or the alpha male, the guy that women flock to.

Are you ready to make a change in your life? Are you ready to have women going home with you? Before you spend any more money on expensive dates, it is time to invest in yourself. It will be the best investment you could ever make. It is time to become the alpha male.